Let’s talk language
The language used when taking about death and dying to children can make such a difference in the way they process what has happened. Words can confuse children and potentially cause additional fears. Unless you know the family well and understand their circumstances, wishes and beliefs, we encourage you to keep things simple.
For anyone supporting a bereaved family, we urge you to consider the language you are using when having conversations.
We want everyone in our community to model safe and compassionate language so our children can begin to grieve in a healthy way.
With your help we can put out a powerful message to educate and encourage people to do what MATTERS.
Here are some examples of good practice on use of languge
Please remember
- Children often understand language and phrases much more literally than us adults!
- When we use clear, honest words about death, we help children make sense of their world, their grief and their feelings.
- Being honest with children about death and dying isn’t cruel-its kind.
- Clear words, safe spaces-that’s what children need one a loved one dies.
Such conversations may be difficult to have, please do reach out to us if you would like some guidance.
